He posts about writing, but is there some reason I should read this blog? This one, out of the hundreds of other blogs with better cookie recipes and the tens of gagiligillion of other blogs of random, unsuccessful writers.
Why should I read THIS guy?
He's never gotten a book deal.
He’s not famous.
He drops the F bomb so I can't show Nana, but not so many times that he makes uninspired ideas and cliché opinions sound edgy and chic. It's like that perfect mushy unsweet spot of horrible between edgy and classy.
And now he reveals that he's not even going to post a crab cakes recipe????
Seriously, what the hell am I doing here?
Well, I can't speak for what is clearly some pretty severe opinions I have projected into you, but I can tell you a little about me.
First: I didn’t sit around for my first thirty-coughsomething years accumulating crab cake recipes and dreaming of someday finding a place where I could share them one at a time.
But.....I haven’t just been watching Nyan Cat that whole time either.*
What I CAN tell you for sure is I’ve been writing an average of three hours a day for nearly thirty years, and about five hours a day for the last decade, (recently, it’s gone up again—now it’s more like six to eight hours a day on average), I will make up to 49.83% more pop culture references to MMORPG’s, sci-fi media, and generally “cool shit” than your average stoogy MFA graduate, and I’m totally not afraid to make up bullshit statistics right on the fly.
All this and my personal guarantee that I actually got the “Ethan Frome damage” joke from Grosse Point Blanke.
|This is like UBERwhite fiction.|
It's the Wonder Bread of fiction.
I have a degree in Creative Writing. I graduated Summa Cum Laude from SFSU's fairly well-respected undergraduate CW program this Spring (2012). Technically that’s a “lit heavy” English degree “with emphasis in Creative Writing," which means I wrote my share of literary criticism when I wasn’t writing creatively. I know some people take Creative Writing for an easy degree, but I looked for the professors who demanded excellence and had a reputation for eating undergrads. When I found them, I took everything they taught. I didn’t get a 3.94 because I was coasting. I also didn’t slam out a degree and bug out. In fact, I was 21 creative writing units over what I needed to graduate and my dean was basically shooing me out the door with narrowed eyes since I was on a Pell Grant. ("Sure, Detective Fiction can fill in for your "genre" requirement even though you're supposed to take a Poetry or Drama class. Let's go with that. Now fucking graduate already!") I went back to school in my thirties to hone my craft and I decided to suck the marrow from the bones of every class I took. The point is, I picked up a couple of things while I was there.
I’ve been a managing editor of a literary magazine. It wasn't the happiest time of my life, and I'm pretty sure my EIC was actively trying to make me cry, but I learned a lot, especially about the business of writing and how and why things get picked for publication.
I taught ESL and Developmental English for years (and only recently gave it up when writing started paying the bills). Teaching it was one of the most liberating experience on the technical end of my writing that I could have imagined, and it’s brought a lot of cultural and linguistic nuance into my world and into my writing, and calmed my fear that my grammar was far more important than what I was writing.
Age ten. Fourth grade. Halloween prompt. We got a paragraph start and it was up to us to end it. I wrote twenty-one college ruled pages (college ruled, mind you, not that wide ruled crap, and certainly not the handwriting practice paper with the big space on the top half for crayon pictures; I’m talking the real deal here, compadres). It was the best feeling I’d ever had. (At ten, I’d never had a smoking hot threesome, you understand.) I knew then what I wanted to do with my life. I wanted to be a writer.
And I never looked back.
Every decision between then and now has been engineered with being a writer in mind. Not a lot of people I know, even the incredibly talented and successful artists among them, knew the score so soon. I’ve been writing ever since.
So very, very badly.
But I have been writing. And maybe a little tiny bit better than before.
I tried to be Stephen King when I was 12, writing stories of self-willed big rigs chasing little kids all over pastoral New England towns. It was crap of course, but if you've met the Creative Writing program at SFSU, you would know that it is actually a MAJOR boon as a writer that I have gotten the "I'm going to be Stephen King" phase out of my system before I hit a "Short Story" workshop.
I started writing works of 100+ pages in seventh grade. I finished my first real manuscript in eighth grade. I "wrote books" between the ages of ten and fourteen, but they were usually about twenty pages long
Perhaps the best thing that started happening in seventh grade with my longer "books" is that my friends wanted to read them. In high school I was pestered over whether or not I had written any more. In my junior year, I hit another bellwether on this front: a friend of mine read a manuscript I’d written as I was writing it, and when I was done he asked for the whole thing so he could read it...again. "I want to make sure I didn’t miss anything," he said.
I wouldn’t know it for a few more years, but smoking threesomes got nothing—NOTHING—on the feeling of someone reading your work again because they really liked it.
I wasn’t ever just about one art form as a youngling. In high school I was in band and in choir. (Yeah, I was that guy.) I always loved music, theater, film, and even visual arts in addition to literature. I’ve always pursued arts and humanities with more than just a dilettante interest. (Not that I buy into the bourgeoisie “high art” aesthetic mind…) I find that an eclectic taste in arts has greatly informed my appreciation of literature and my own writing.
I actually am published. Technically. It’s not anything you could pick up at a Barnes and Noble, and most of it (that isn’t blogging) happened before the ubiquity of having an e-version of nearly everything, but it’s out there. It exists in a few dark and hidden corners. Sometimes it’s easy to forget that the Rubicon of almighty “publication” can be technically passed with a whimper in a way that feels like it doesn’t “count.”
I won the UCLA Comm. board award for an article I wrote in a student magazine. The oddball thing about this was that I did this without actually being a UCLA student. I just submitted to one of their news magazines that my friends worked on. If there was ever a moment I realized maybe I actually could write worth a flip, that was probably it.
I bought into the cultural myth of how to find happiness in my twenties. I took the advice that writing wouldn’t pay the bills and struggled through one “fallback, safety-net” job after another. I married for all the wrong reasons and divorced some years later for at least a couple of the right ones. I played the game by society’s happiness playbook, and it made me miserable.
So in my thirties, I told society's happiness playbook that I was seeing other playbooks and we should move on. I let the Jonses pull WAY out ahead and dedicated myself to the things that bring me a whole frikton more meaning in life than big screen TVs and slick ass cars.
I used my summa cum laude degree to become a househusband. Now I’m write for hours a day, and every night I fall into bed with a blissed out smile on my face from the hours of writing I've just done. I describe my life to most people and they scrunch up their faces and wonder what the hell I’m doing with it. I describe it to artists and the smile wistfully and say “that sounds absolutely PERFECT.”
I've been blogging for five years now, and I even publish some of my fiction here. I make money. It's barely enough to live on, but it's way more money than most writers make in five years (of seriously writing). It's hundreds a month (and I won't be gauche by telling you exactly how many hundreds). The total is more than most writers make in their writing career.
If you’re thinking: “Great. All that and a good fucking CRAB CAKES recipe, and I might stick around until tomorrow,” that’s fine. All this sound and fury signifies nothing by way of authority. I probably don’t have any particular bit of knowledge that someone couldn’t figure out (and more) in an hour or two on Google, except maybe for some very esoteric theoretical floatsam about writing or literature I've accumulated by being an obnoxiously attentive student.
I’ve been around the block, but others have been around the block, toured the whole neighborhood, and even know a good shwarma place for lunch (where the lamb kababs are "totes magotes"). I don’t know much more than a Business of Writing class and a couple of day's research worth of information about the publishing industry. I can't tell you how to write a slamming query letter. I have no idea if there's a fast track to scoring an agent that doesn't involve sheer unadulterated nepotism or knee pads and a lobster bib.
But here’s what I do know, and I know it well:
I know how to be an unsuccessful writer.
I know how to not make it.
I know how to write day after day and not make a damned dime. Or to make a pittance.
I know how to keep going for nearly thirty years, and have the temerity to not even consider throwing in the towel.
I know how to write because not writing feels wrong, and that the parts of writing that are cathartic and meaningful and wonderful come in the act of creation not in the acquisition of an agent or the painful negotiation of a book deal. (Not that readers and affirmation and paychecks and fans and groupies and smoking hot groupie threesomes aren’t great, but they aren’t what make the artist YEARN to keep making that art.)
I know how to be artistic and creative for its own sake and to never let the world tell me that I “need” a white picket fence and a sensible car.
I know how to set up my life to feed my art addiction, without dejection, over the unfulfilled fantasies of writing the Great American Novel and fat royalty checks and travelling the talk show circuit.
And I know what it means to write when there is no incentive to do so except the sheer love of transforming twenty-six letters and fourteen pieces of punctuation into meaning.
I’m going to keep right on writing. I'm going to do it with forty thousand followers or four or four million and with ten page views or ten zillion. And as long as I'm at it, I might as well try to make a few dollars along the way. It'll be an interesting journey, and I might learn a few things that I'll happily share. And I welcome you to join me. Perhaps we can even learn from, inspire, motivate, and challenge each other.
That's who this n00b is.
*In fact, I can only claim to have watched Nyan cat for about forty-five minutes at a stretch. Just so you know: I’m not proud of this achievement. The lengths I will go to procrastinate writing a literary criticism paper terrify even me.
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