|Pictured: Death Hill probably.|
Actually pictured: half dome.
I don't mean that probably every kid has some metaphorical analog to Death Hill. I mean literally 90% of kids probably had at least one hill somewhere in their childhood called Death Hill That's how kids name things. Ridge of Doom. Slaughter Creek. Massacre way.
When you're thirteen, the world is in danger of becoming a lot more pedestrian than you hoped it would be, and that sense of adventure is hard to come by.
My Death Hill was a bike path on a half developed (and then abandoned for some reason) housing tract. The ground was level at the top and level at the bottom and on the hill between them a flattened section of the dirt hill made a passable bike path. We all knew a friend of a friend from the town over whose cousin had totally died on Death Hill. And each of us was sure we were the only one lying about personally knowing that kid.
Let me drop some truth though: even though my personal Death Hill was conquered back in the eighties before kids would be caught dead wearing helmets, I'm pretty sure you would have to strap some sort of explosive device to your bike to do anything more than skin your knees and forearms but good. Perhaps....perhaps there was some grain of truth to the legends, but Broken Arm Hill didn't have quite the same gravitas.
I would be the first of us over Death Hill that day. I was always racing where angels feared to tread––more a testament to my foolishness than bravery as private property, high security government contract campuses, and the occasional not-abandoned building were on that list. That day would be no different. And halfway down Death Hill, when I realized for the first time, it was possible I wasn't actually going to crash (unconsciously reinforcing some formative lesson about risk versus reward) I felt like I had smiled at the face of mortality.
What I remember most was looking over the edge. It was probably a 45 degree angle at the outside, had been pressed pretty flat, and might have been an elevation change of 20 feet at most, but when you were looking down it for the first time it felt like half a mile straight down....with jagged outcroppings ripe for the impaling. We all looked over the edge for a long time until, one by one, we found our courage.
Today I'm looking over a new edge.
Writing About Writing (and my writing career) is about to undertake the most major change it's ever had since this blog's inception. We're not just fiddling with the knobs this time. We're going back in to rebuild some of the core assumptions about content.
This last week I didn't get much posted, but over at Patreon, the back channels were alive with chatter. ("And tier rewards too if you want to get in on that!" he said with his best salesman pitch.) This is part of a longer conversation I've been having with those who help keep the lights on around here (and me fed) about what they'd like to see from me and how often. A few months back, I posted a question about quality vs. quantity. As always, I was harder on myself than my patrons would even dream of being.
The short version is I've been working too hard. I've had no appreciable work/life balance as I slam out 50,60, and sometimes 70+ hour weeks. I was perpetually reminding myself to take it easier (and finding I actually had difficulty doing so). Probably chasing blog analytics helped me not feel like such a fuck up after what pragmatically amounted to a divorce, but it also affected my mental and sometimes physical health. It was just so easy to keep going...to always be behind and overwhelmed. Then you don't have to slow down and listen to the voices.
This is as much a process happening between me and my therapist as it is a blog reorg.
Also, and perhaps most frustratingly, I ran out of time to cannibalize for ever more writing, and still wasn't getting to the writing I wanted to be doing. I've been so busy writing blog posts (and doing all the various behind-the-scenes maintenance) that I wasn't getting time for the fiction projects I want to be doing including a VERY overdue book a lot of people were very generous about Kickstarting.
There was no "Coming to Jesus Moment" but over the last two months, I have realized the center wasn't going to hold. To criminally mix metaphors, I'm pedaling a flying machine that is overloaded and I'm pedalling faster and faster and faster but still losing altitude. The problem isn't how fast I'm pedaling. The problem is I need to jettison some baggage. So I checked in with my 200+ bosses, and now I'm going to be majorly altering the structure of this blog.
You can see the latest poll results in that screen cap above, of course, but this wasn't my first poll on the topic (I've sort of been asking the same question in different ways for several months) and I've gotten a lot of good feedback from Patrons and friends over the last few months.
- I'm too hard on myself.
- No...way way WAY too hard on myself.
- Seriously, fucking stop being so hard on yourself, Chris.
- If I want to keep internal deadlines, fine, but no one else––even the people paying me to write––really gives a shit, so I really don't need these "Mea Culpa!" posts describing how behind I am.
- Writing six posts a week and shooting for seven is overwhelming to followers. It's TOO much and is actually STRESSFUL to try to keep track of a blog that is so prolific.
- Quality over quantity will merit out.
- People give me money because they support me as an artist and a writer, not because they expect to see "output" from me like I'm a factory worker.
- Pretty much unless I disappear for weeks, that support will remain.
- People know fiction isn't going to go up at the same speed and they're okay waiting.
- I need to consider my political ramblings on my personal Facebook page to be writing. I put in hours on some of those posts. They count.
- Folding in downtime should be considered an essential part of my process. I write better and write more interesting things when I'm refreshed.
- Many of you have mentioned that the QUALITY of my writing is noticeably better when I am taking regular breaks.
- Really dude, way too hard on yourself.
*stares over the edge a little longer*
*hits publish/pushes off*
Here we go...
This sounds like a good plan.ReplyDelete
No, no, NO considering lighter posts _occasionally_ on T-Th-Sat. We all know what will happen with that.ReplyDelete
Also, a light and fluffy, jazz hand post ON A MONDAY wouldn't be a mortal sin either, Chris, and it wouldn't chase us away in droves.
What she said. M-W-F is PLENTY! Don't slide into doing more. :)Delete
And another thing ;-) Speaking for myself, my support would not stop if you had to go silent for weeks (or even months), as this would probably a time you'd need it most. Unless *you* tell us you don't need it any more. Preferably because you've won some huge lot of money and can now fully enjoy a life wholly devoted to writing.ReplyDelete
Go all in.ReplyDelete
I’m confused. How did “we’d be cool with 2 posts a week” turn into “I’ll give you 3 and maybe even 4+!!”....? I mean if you WANT to put that much content out then cool beans, but it sounds like you’re still overestimating how much people expect from you. Even this slimmed down plan sounds like more than anyone (but you) is expecting...! Just saying (much as Helene did above) ;)ReplyDelete
I'm with everyone else. I totally hear your desire to honor our support of you as a writer (frankly yours is the only blog I've followed almost religiously for years), but I miss the lighter tone of the years when you were clearly less tired. How about, if you REALLY feel the need for T/Th posts, to let those be guest posts?ReplyDelete
Stop. Working. So. Hard. And only someone who does the same thing you do recognizes just how destructive this can be (call me a hypocrite if you will, but I'm on the same journey you are).
Hi Chris:) I think it is awesome that you're working on a plan to cut out some more time for yourself... But whenever anyone does this they always end up doing halfway between the old thing in the new thing... So if you really want to make this change be the new amount then honestly you actually need to commit to half this much... I would say only one big post a week and not have it be set on any particular day... And I would say one fluffy post a week... And then do your political posts whenever you feel it bite you in the leg... And literally anything else that you right unless it's time-sensitive should go in your buffer for when you need to cover and don't have the time or energy to write one of those two posts.ReplyDelete
personally I would rather you spend more time working on your fiction and writing just enough on your blog to let us know what's going on... And definitely stop with the Mea culpa posts I know you think you are keeping us up-to-date but it's really hard to see someone you admire constantly beating themselves.
You're doing a great job just keep up with what inspires you! Give yourself the breathing room to heal and the Space to self-care.
+1 to all of the above. You've already saved my writing career, so I'll never cancel that Patreon, nor stop following you. It's the debt i owe. Take your time, and go create something magnificent! Love from Norway :)ReplyDelete